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Sometimes, relationships don’t fall apart due to a lack of love, but because of inner behavioral patterns that create insecurity and distance. Some people, even though they deeply desire closeness, unconsciously sabotage relationships out of fear of vulnerability, control, or losing their identity. It’s not about bad intentions, but rather internal struggles that affect their ability to stay in a healthy and balanced relationship. According to astrology, people born under these two zodiac signs are the most likely to sabotage their own relationships.
Gemini – sabotage their own relationships
Geminis are curious, witty, and always on the move, but when it comes to relationships, they are often guided by inner restlessness. They may seem present and connected, only to suddenly withdraw without a clear reason. Their fear of boredom and loss of freedom can lead them to question the relationship the moment it becomes too serious or predictable. Sometimes, they create conflict where there is none, just to test boundaries or stir up the dynamics. Even though they are capable of loving deeply, they often sabotage what matters to them because they’re unsure if they truly want to commit.
Geminis struggle with predictability and the routine aspects of a relationship, which leads to internal resistance. Instead of facing their fears, they might emotionally distance themselves or seek stimulation outside the relationship. Their need for freedom often clashes with the need for stability. In moments of insecurity, they tend to pull away, even though their heart is still attached. Once they learn to recognize these patterns, they can build deep and healthy relationships—but only if they allow themselves to do so.
Scorpio – sabotage their own relationships
Scorpios love intensely and deeply, but that very depth often leads them into inner doubts and fears of betrayal. In relationships, they seek complete connection, yet find it hard to surrender fully without reservation. When they sense a threat—real or imagined—they may begin to test their partner, set emotional traps, or create drama as a way to maintain control. Their tendency toward jealousy and exaggeration can harm the relationship even when everything is going well.
Scorpios are masters of self-sabotage in love—they often create distance precisely when they feel most connected. They may question their partner’s intentions and search for hidden meanings where none exist. Although loyalty is extremely important to them, sometimes they don’t even trust their own feelings. To maintain a healthy relationship, they need to understand that vulnerability is not a weakness. Once they manage to let go of control, their love becomes deep, transformative, and incredibly powerful.
