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We all want our partner to be there for us when times are tough, to provide a shoulder to cry on and a warm word of comfort. However, some zodiac signs simply aren’t natural at providing emotional support. Whether they’re too wrapped up in themselves, overly rational, or just not in touch with their own feelings, these signs often aren’t the emotional rock you can lean on. Here are four zodiac signs that, while great at many things, aren’t the best when it comes to emotional support—at least not in the way you might expect.
Gemini – are not supportive of their partners
Geminis are social butterflies and love to talk about everything, but when it comes time to provide emotional support to their partner, they often become too distracted or preoccupied with their own thoughts to truly connect. They’re happy to analyze a situation, but providing deep emotional comfort? That’s a challenge.
Geminis often act as if they’re above emotional drama and would rather give advice from their head than from their heart. Their problem-solving approach is conversation-based—but more focused on intellectual solutions than hugs and compassion. If you’re looking for a reserved, objective perspective on things, a Gemini is an ideal partner—but if you need a deep emotional connection, you might be left wanting.
Sagittarius – are not supportive of their partners
Sagittarians are free spirits and enthusiastic adventurers, but when faced with their partner’s emotional issues, they can become somewhat absent. Their motto is “life goes on,” so if you’re feeling sad or broken, a Sagittarius might tell you to simply “let it go” and move on. Not out of malice, but because they themselves avoid heavy emotions and would rather focus on the brighter side of life.
Sagittarians simply dislike the weight of emotional conversations, so they often try to resolve issues by minimizing them. While they are wonderful partners when it comes to fun and support in life’s adventures, emotional chaos is just not their forte.
Virgo – are not supportive of their partners
Virgos are perfectionists, but when it comes to emotional support, their practical nature often leaves them a step behind. Instead of sitting down and listening to their partner with understanding, Virgos will try to “fix” things—immediately. Emotions aren’t their natural language, so when a partner comes to them with a broken heart, Virgo will strive to find logical solutions instead of simply providing comfort.
Their innate tendency toward analysis and critical thinking can come off as cold and distant, leaving their partners feeling that they aren’t truly understood or supported on an emotional level.
Aquarius – are not supportive of their partners
Aquarians are known for their independence and originality, but when it comes to emotional support, they often lack that “warm touch.” They love to philosophize about big ideas and changes in the world, but when their partner needs subtle emotional support, an Aquarius can seem cold or distant. Their inclination toward an intellectual approach to life often separates them from deep emotional moments, causing partners to feel as if their emotional needs are pushed aside.
An Aquarius isn’t someone who will give you a long and comforting hug—they would rather offer you rational advice and encourage you to see the bigger picture, even if that’s not what you need at that moment.